Ninefold DMFR Anvil A switch who likes trading the reins · BDSM dating
- Type
- DMFR AnvilSwitch band on Power
- Reads as
- Dominant-leaning Switch · Masochistic · Body-leaning · Ritual-leaning
- Looking for
- A switch who likes trading the reins
- Intensity
- 4 of 5
- Posted
- 4d ago
In their words
So my reading landed me in the Switch band on Power, which, fine, checks out. I run most nights, I'm actually decent at it, but the ones I still think about later are the ones where we traded halfway through and nobody made it into a whole conversation about whose nerve broke first.
I'm a ritual guy. Same three questions before we start, clear beginning, clear ending, none of the guessing. On the receiving end more often than you'd think for someone who leads as much as I do.
If you also live somewhere in the middle of that axis and you're done being told to just pick a lane already, we'll probably get along fine. Tell me what happens on your end when the dynamic flips and neither of you saw it coming.
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