Notthatintoit DSFI Tempest your patient but not so gentle master · BDSM dating
- Type
- DSFI TempestSwitch band on Power, Sensation, Channel and Structure
- Reads as
- Dominant-leaning Switch · Sadistic-leaning Switch · Body-leaning Switch · Instinct-leaning Switch
- Looking for
- your patient but not so gentle master
- Intensity
- 2 of 5
- Posted
- 7h ago
In their words
Quick intro on where I'm at: the dynamic side of things is new territory for me, though I wouldn't call myself a beginner overall. Plenty of scenes under my belt, just more casual and self-directed than structured.
Communication-wise, I lean on colors and safewords and I'll actually use them, so I need that taken seriously.
What I'm into, roughly in order: pain is the big one — full-on masochist here — then bondage, with humiliation/degradation rounding out the top three. That said, praise hits just as hard for me, so both ends of that spectrum are welcome. CNC is something I genuinely love when we've mapped out the boundaries beforehand, and TPE is very much my thing. Side note that felt worth including: I'm bi.
Off the table entirely: blood, scat, knives, needles.
Fire away if there's anything you're curious about.
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