Oarlock DSFI Tempest Someone who wants weather, not a script · BDSM dating
- Type
- DSFI TempestSwitch band on Sensation
- Reads as
- Dominant · Sadistic-leaning Switch · Body-leaning · Instinct-leaning
- Looking for
- Someone who wants weather, not a script
- Intensity
- 5 of 5
- Posted
- yesterday
In their words
No plan. Read the room instead. Follow what's actually happening, not what was supposed to happen. Shape shows up after, never before.
I called this a preference, not a virtue, and I'll say it again. If you need the order of events set in advance, we will grind against each other. Fair warning, not a challenge.
Sensation reading sits dead on the line. That's accurate — some nights I give, some I take, depending on the room.
Limits and safewords get settled before anything starts. Every time. No exceptions, no renegotiating mid-scene. Bring your list. I'll bring mine.
The reading
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